Let’s Talk About Sex
We are all adults here, right? I know you all want to know. The truth is, I walk around naked all the time now. And in 8 days I will be an Empty Nester. Then it’s on like Donkey Kong, lol.
With the tummy tuck, everything gets pulled up. And I do mean everything. I have seen that some people think a “mons lift” is something extra you have to ask for from your surgeon. I didn’t ask for it, but I sure got it. Dr. Yamahata includes a little lipo to the mons with his Extended Tummy Tucks, and then pulls it all up when he closes. Like EVERYTHING gets pulled up. Easy access. Plus, no more huge belly in the way. Plus, feelin myself. Loving the skin I’m in.
My core muscles are still healing from the diastasis recti repair, still tight and they get fatigued and it feels weird getting into certain positions. But overall, tummy tucks and liposuction are good for your sex life. Real good. For both of us. Ask My husband.
I lived in shame for all these years. Lights out. Don’t touch my belly. Parts in the way and out of reach. I hated myself, remember? Well, not anymore. Now I am acutely aware of how much we were missing. It was me. In my head. Couldn’t let go.
Now I don’t care if the lights are off or not.
Now I like it when he touches my belly. And my hips. And everything.
I almost forgot about the nips. At first, after surgery, my nipples were hypersensitive. Like DO NOT touch them sensitive. Now, at 5 months after my breast reduction, they are just normal sensitive. Go ahead, husband. You can touch them now.
Sex sells, right? Who knew that Extended Abdominoplasty also meant Extended Sex Life.
I’m pretty sure Dr. Yamahata did!